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   Cat Back to school rocking in my school shoes shirt Men still do those things to unattractive women. It’s not like they’re immune from assault and harassment. Being conventionally attractive leads to far better outcomes — medically, economically, socially, there’s just no comparison. Other women treat you different too. It’s not just men. It can definitely come with some unique downsides but it’s more similar to the  Cat Back to school rocking in my school shoes shirt  using their challenges of “finding it harder to trust people” or “being recognized in public” or “well money can’t buy happiness” — as if to imply they face equal but different obstacles than poor people. They aren’t totally wrong, but objectively speaking their lives are better off by every metric and it’s a bit insulting to suggest otherwise. But this is talking about averages, it doesn’t mean every attractive person has a better life nor does it mean unattractive people can’t be successful, just ...

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